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How to Stop Your Puppy Jumping on People

2023-02-07

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Teach a polite hello with four paws on the floor

You walk through the front door and your puppy launches at you, all paws and tongue. It is sweet at ten weeks. A few months later, when they knock a visiting grandparent off balance or leave muddy prints on a guest's clothes, it is a lot less fun.

The good news is that you can teach a different way to say hello. This guide covers how to stop your puppy jumping on people: why they do it, how to greet your puppy at the door, how to handle guests and how to practice so the new habit sticks.

Why Puppies Jump Up

Puppies jump to get close to faces, and to a puppy almost any attention counts as a reward. Looking at them, talking to them, touching them and even pushing them off all give them what they wanted, which is you. That is why saying "No, down" while you push a jumping puppy away often makes jumping more likely, not less. The plan below moves the payoff from jumping to four paws on the floor.

What You'll Need

  • A regular leash and collar or harness
  • Small, tasty treats, kept in a pot by the door
  • A marker: a word like "Yes" that tells your puppy the exact moment they got it right, followed by a reward
  • A no reward marker: a calm, neutral word like "Oops" that tells your puppy that choice did not earn the reward, so try again
  • A friend or family member to play the guest

Greeting You at the Door

Start with yourself, since you come through the door more than anyone.

  1. Come in ready. Have a handful of treats before you open the door.
  2. Get in first. As you step in, before your puppy can jump, scatter a few treats on the floor near them. Their nose goes down, and so do their paws.
  3. Mark the moment. As they stop moving toward you and drop their nose to the floor, say "Yes" and drop a couple more.
  4. Greet low and calm. When they come back with four paws on the floor, say "Yes" and give them calm attention and another treat.
  5. If they jump, go boring. Say "Oops", then turn away and go quiet for a second or two. No eye contact, no talking, no touching. The moment all four paws are down, turn back and greet them.
  6. Reward the near misses. When your puppy starts to bounce but holds back, mark and reward. That moment of self-control is exactly what you are building.

Many puppies start offering a sit when they want attention. When that happens, wait for the sit before you mark.

Using a gate. A baby gate gives you extra control. With your puppy on the other side, walk toward the gate. If they jump, stop or step back. When their paws are down, step forward again. If they sit or stay down, mark and toss a treat behind them, so they come back to the gate for another try.

Greeting Guests

Guests are harder: excitement is higher and visitors do not know your rules.

  1. Set up a settle spot or tether. Pick a spot near the door but out of the doorway. That could be a mat or bed, or a tether: a leash clipped to something sturdy, used only while you are right there. Practice there without guests first, rewarding calm.
  2. Brief your guest. Ask them to ignore your puppy until all four paws are on the floor. If your puppy jumps, they turn away or step back outside for a few seconds.
  3. When the doorbell rings, calmly take your puppy to their spot and clip on the leash, or ask for their settle.
  4. Open the door slowly. Stand between your puppy and the door. If your puppy barks or strains forward, pause until they are quiet before opening it further.
  5. Let your guest come in and sit down. Toss treats to your puppy for staying calm.
  6. Greet once things are calmer. Four paws on the floor earns treats and attention from you or your guest. A jump means the guest turns away or steps back for a few seconds, then tries again.

Our post on teaching "Wait" also helps with calm door manners.

Practice Setups With Friends

Don't wait for real visitors to train. Set up practice instead.

  • Ask a few friends or neighbors to come over and play guest. Pizza makes a good thank-you.
  • Have each person knock, come in, leave and come back several times. Repetition is what makes it easy.
  • Practice with as many different people as you can, so your puppy learns the same rule holds with everyone.
  • Practice sit, down and a calm settle near the front door when no one is visiting, so those skills are easier to use there when it counts.

Training Tips

  • Everyone follows the same rule. If one person lets your puppy jump up, your puppy learns that jumping still pays sometimes.
  • Think about who your puppy will meet. A jump that is fine with you can knock over a small child or an older person.
  • Manage busy visits. If you cannot train when guests arrive, put your puppy in their crate or behind a gate with a chew before the door opens.
  • Teach an off switch. Games that teach your puppy to calm down from excited, like Go Wild and Freeze, help a lot with greetings.
  • Mouthy too? Many jumpers also nip when excited. Our guide to puppy biting and nipping covers that side.

Frequently Asked Questions

Should I push my puppy down or knee them?

No. It can hurt or frighten your puppy, and to many puppies a push feels like part of the game. Turning away and rewarding four paws on the floor works better.

My puppy was doing well and has started jumping again. Why?

Jumping often comes back in adolescence, between about 6 and 18 months, when excitement runs high. Go back a step and keep practicing. Our guide to the teenage dog phase explains more.

How Dogwise Can Help

Polite greetings are part of our Puppy Foundations program for puppies of around 16 weeks to 6 months. Your puppy lives in their trainer's home, not a kennel, and practices door manners and calm hellos as part of everyday life. Then your trainer shows you how to keep it going at your own front door, with follow-up sessions to fine-tune it. For large or fast-growing puppies whose jumping already knocks people off balance, Big Puppy is often the right fit.

Is every visitor getting a full-body welcome? Book a free consultation and tell us about your puppy. We will help you find the right next step.

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